Questioning..

Carina

So I love talking about sexuality and I love when people ask me what my orientation is but I am currently confused on one thing: whether I’m demisexual or asexual.. I’ve done a lot of research and I (currently) tell people that I’m demi, but I’m still struggling with the question.

I’m a virgin but I have no intentions on having sex and I can get sexually turned on my something but I can’t see of myself ever actually having sex with someone. I can imagine myself with someone but I don’t actually want anything to happen. I also can watch porn or read smut and imagine that, but it can’t be with me and instead two (or more) other characters.

When I realistically think about it I feel uncomfortable and like it would never happen with me. But I do want to have children of my own in the future so I know I will have it at some point with someone I’m very comfortable with. I’m just not interested in it?

This also might be because I’m young (I’m currently 16), but I personally don’t think sex is something I want to focus on or am interested in..

The main question is am I demisexual or asexual or just something completely different?

(I am biromantic but am stuck on demi or ace)

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