me and my husband have 3 kids a 4 year old, a 2 year old and a 1 month old. so you know this is the age when they need a set routine. I work from 8am to 5pm then I get home to mommy duties, chores and school online. after 930pm my kids are in bed and I'm waking up every 3 hours to feed our newborn and I hate when my husband allows unexpected guest mostly his brothers to come at 12 or 1 in the morning. my kids wake up all energized and here I am back at sq one trying to put them back to sleep. I've spoken to my husband about it a few times and he feels like he can't just kick them out and my response was simply tell them to call before they come to see if we are up to have company. well tonight I went home from walking the dog and his brother is laid out on the couch my kids are back up and I had a mental breakdown and asked who invited you? do you see what time it is? it was 12 at night and his response was I invited myself and this apartment is as much my brothers too! I got so upset my husband didnt respond to his comment but when he ended up leaving I spoke to my husband again and he left like I was rude I told him well if there was boundaries I wouldn't feel the need to be rude! I'm not going to let something like this breakup our marriage but I don't know how to approach the situation anymore! come on the weekends or shit take him on the weekends but my week days are long I don't need them to be longer 😡