I give birth Friday (induction). I am exerting way too much energy worrying about how to handle my sister and her husband (and kids) who will be in the area on vacation. Because “they’re gonna be so close” my sister keeps on and on about visiting and letting her know when I’m in labor and they wanna come see the baby etc etc and it’s seriously driving me crazy bc I don’t want any visitors. And I’m tired of feeling obligated to have them visit just bc they are going to be in the area. I have already expressed once to her earlier in the summer this week is going to be crazy hectic for us and it’s like it went through one ear and out the other. Also, we can’t stand her husband because he’s fake, abusive, and acts like he’s gods gift when he’s around people. We don’t want him around. Period. I’ve also said this to her but earlier in the year after they almost divorced. I just want to say I don’t want visitors. Without being shamed, judged, people having their feathers ruffled and stepping on toes. I don’t give a shit they r on vacation. Not my problem. Sure it’s convenient for you but not for us. And I don’t want to get “shitty” but she just won’t let up.