Do you single mothers still let your child’s DEADBEAT father see your kids?

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Not only that he’s a deadbeat & lied about sending child support payment, he’s narcissistic, emotionally abusive, verbally abusive, and so on. 
Btw! He ejaculated in me w/o me knowing so I didn’t think about getting a plan b. Sadly.

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what you mean sadly. If he did your child wouldn't be here. 
Child support and custody are two different things, and how he treats you doesnt matter it's how he treats the child.

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it's not sadly, you have a child. and id you didnt want one, you shouldnt have risked having one. 
but yes, i would let my kids father see his kid unless them being around each other was a danger to my child. its extremely unfair to the kid and father to deny them knowing each other because you don't like the father.

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No offense and I don’t mean to sound mean or rude at all but how did you not feel it?? When my hubs doesn’t pull out I know lol no mistaking that! 
I have 50/50 custody with my ex. He is a POS to me but a great dad to our son and he is remarried to the women he had an affair with...and she’s a great step mom to our son. As long as our son is happy and cared for I don’t care about anything else.

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What does the court say?  You may not have a choice my dear... those children have a father and he has a legal right to see his children or you’ll be in contempt of court.  Think about it.  Also have you asked your children what they want?  If they really don’t want a relationship with their dad and are of legal age to make a choice then go to court to amend your visitation rights the right way.

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Child support and parenting time are exclusive of each other. Court frowns upon custodial parent refusing parenting time for financial revenge. You could lose parenting time yourself if you proceed. The court doesn’t care about your opinion or relationship to their father. They only care about the parent child relationship.

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Yes regardless of how I feel about him it’s not my place to take the relationship from my child.

Do you single mothers still let your child’s DEADBEAT father see your kids?

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