I bought a belly band at Motherhood and was soooooo excited to get some relief. I put it on and the pressure pushing on my back made it worse. I had to have done something wrong, right? Everyone raves about them and I hated it. I didn't feel that lift and relief that everyone talks about. Granted I was plus size to begin with and my lower belly just hangs there especially after my first c section. I didn't like the pressure on my scar and forget about sitting! It was so uncomfortable. What am I doing wrong??