Are you okay with your SO watching porn? If no, why?

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I never honestly even was aware that some people had a problem with it! I have never felt weird about any of my boyfriends watching porn!
I guess I am just honestly curious to the reason why some women aren’t okay with it? not trying to be rude i’m genuinely curious😊

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Why would I ever want someone I love to lust after another woman? It’s not an issue of insecurity. I just don’t get it. If my husband wants a video of something he can just ask.

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I don’t have a problem with it and I watch it too.

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It’s a non-issue for us. We both watch privately. 
I don’t consider it lusting after another person. When I watch porn, I don’t lust after the guys dick or abs or whatever. Theres no strong physical attraction. It’s the act. It’s all psychological, and I learned ALOT from porn in my 20’s. 🤷🏽‍♀️😂

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Porn is a problem in my marriage because he chooses to masturbate instead of having sex with me. We only have sex when he wants to, on his terms; so, if he takes care of himself before I get home, then I have to wait until he feels like he wants to have sex with me again. We only have sex once a week because that’s what he wants. (I’d prefer 3-4 times a week. I stopped initiating sex years ago because I get rejected every single time. It’s heartbreaking and infuriating at the same time, to know that he’d rather look at other women than be with me, a person he claims to love and claims to find sexy and beautiful.
Oops. I didn’t mean to go on a rant. Sorry 😑

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he got addicted to it now we have no sex ever  so I am  going to say that's my fault cuz I didn't mine the porn

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It’s never been an issue so I don’t know how I would actually feel in the situation, but I don’t think it would bother me. We see each other enough to please each other and if he wanted me to send him something when we’re not together then he would just ask!