he starts work at 6am. I must be up at that time too because he cares about me. he wants me to have a routine. he loves me. he said if he cant sleep l cant too. he said if you dont wake up I'll wake our daughter up. he knows I dont want her to wake up. shes only 4 months old. he knows that he can control me or make me listen to him with threats or else l wont listen. he just msged saying I'm sorry if this morning made you upset. it's just that yesterday I wanted to wake up at 6am to get things done. and he is proud of me for that. i cant stop crying. i feel like his slave not his wife. he just msged saying Every time you wake up early and have a good day the next day you sleep in and then fall into the same habit again. I know it's tough for you but I need you to be strong in the beginning. It will become easier for you later. When our daughter starts going school it will be too late for you to get into routine then. he only cares about me.