Would you be mad if your teenage daughter was pregnant ?

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I am 16 and I’ve been with my boyfriend for two years, I don’t know if I’m pregnant yet I tested and it was negative but I’m gonna test again in a week to see if I am or not but I told my mam and she seems supportive which I’m happy about, but I’m kinda scared if she gets mad at me, or if people are judgmental. Just letting you’s know we didn’t plan the baby the condom ripped a slight bit and I regret it so much 🙁

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Not mad just sad and disappointed because I know how hard it is to be a teen Mom and wouldn't recommend it to anyone

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I would be extremely upset. It’s just a natural reaction. No one wants for their child to be a teen parent, and most likely they are going to raise their child’s kid because you are not grown up enough to do it yourself.

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I would be disappointed, but I would try my hardest not to get angry.

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Yes I would be upset. Very upset.

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People are going to be judgmental. You're going to be a mom and that needs to be the last thing you are worrying about now. If you have the support of your mom, and she gets mad at you then you need to look in a mirror and ask yourself if the reason she is mad is valid and if so, change. You dont need to explain to random people on a forum, or anyone how you ended up pregnant or your intentions. Focus on the important stuff like making a life for yourself and your future family.

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Also, we were 16 when my God daughter was born. It was very hard to raise a child while being a child, we didnt have the support of her father as he was only 15, but she is 7 now and is the most amazing person in my life. Things happen for a reason and work out for the best always.

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I honestly wouldn’t be impressed if my daughter gets pregnant when she’s your age. Mainly due to financial issues. Babies things can cost a lot of money. 
Id have to support her the best I could if she decided to keep the baby though as how else would you two pay for all the things the baby would need? Will/can his parents also support you and the baby?
When is your period due? It sounds like your mom is supportive so I have to ask Why aren’t you on birth control and why didn’t you take a morning after pill? 
Anyway Theres no point testing each week, a test if your period is late then decide whats best to do

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I’d be upset, but I’d get up and get on with it.
If it was planned, boy oh boy...

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I wouldn't be mad. I would be disappointed that extra precautions weren't taken over and above condoms or even Plan B. I'd mostly be worried that life for my child will be harder but I'd be there for them as much as I can.

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It depends, if my 16 year old purposely got pregnant I'd be mad. But you're in a long term relationship and were using protection, if you were my daughter I'd support you and if you're not pregnant I'd offer to go with you to get on the pill to use along with condoms.

Would you be mad if your teenage daughter was pregnant ?

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