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My boyfriend and I having been dating for 1 year and almost 2 months. He asked me to move in a month ago. I said yes. I will be moving in October or November. We've had two miscarriages together. I am ready to have a baby with him. I want talk to him about it. We both want kids. He wants 4 and I want 2. Am I wrong for wanting to start a family? Please keep in mind He is 23 almost 24 and I am 20 almost 21. He wants to have kids before 30. I also am not a drinker and probably never will. Feel free to ask questions and try not to bash on me

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No, you wanting to start a family is completely natural and normal.

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You haven’t been together very long, but if you both feel ready for the commitment of a child, why not make the commitment of marriage first? I am not asking to make you feel judged or anything, I am honestly just asking. If you are already discussing having 2-4 kids with a person maybe decide that you want a lifetime relationship with them first? Kids would mean you have a connection no matter what any way... might as well have the legal protection

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Girl live together first. See how that goes. It is said you truly get to know someone once you live with them. Take your time. Enjoy life together and have fun. I would say consider marriage first before becoming a mother. I speak from experience. I’m a single mother. If I could have changed one thing, is choose a better father for my daughter. Choose wisely men come and go but children are for ever!

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I’m confused. You’ve had two miscarriages but haven’t discussed getting pregnant? It sounds like you’re already trying, whether or not it’s purposefully. You need to talk about this and decide whether to continue trying or choose a more effective method of birth control.

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