Anyone else’s partner lack skill with foreplay or fingering before sex?? Don’t know what else to do, he is good at main sex but anything else is a big no :( I spend ages trying to set the mood dress up, give amazing oral to him for long periods of time and then when it comes to me the effort is not there 😩 been together 6 years and I’ve tried to tell him to make more of an effort with the before part of sex even on purpose left things out on ‘how to lick a girl out good’ ‘how to get your partner horny’. I wouldn’t mind but if I’m making an effort for long periods of time and sometimes he won’t try to make me in the mood before sex it bothers me and in my head becomes a bit awkward 🤦🏼‍♀️ sorry for the long read but please any advice or tips or experiences on what to do would be brill, thank you 💛

EDIT: I will add that I would never leave my man for this he is my heart I couldn’t love him more 😍