i think im unable to come ?

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ive been with 4 people sexually and 3 out of the four of them ive felt really intense when theyve messed with the clit and it just gets to intense that its sort of painful because nothings happening so  i end up stopping them i get pleasure out of sex its just that ive never oragasmed

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My boyfriend knows my body 100% now and can easily give me an orgasm but back in the early days or when he gets drunk he can sometimes be a little too fast and hard down there, which basically makes it near on impossible to have an orgasm for me because it's intense and almost painful. A way that I had my first orgasm was the 'low and slow' technique 😂 Probably best to try it yourself but if you take your time and try not too apply too much pressure you'll have a slower build up and it won't be overwhelming or uncomfortable. May also be worth encouraging your partner to try a new method and switch things up- but he won't know unless you tell him so you gotta be open and say it can kinda be painful 🤷‍♀️

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Try using a vibrator, you’ll know if you can after using one. 🌝

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and I'm one of those that likes it hard and fast, or with a finger vibrator.

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it could also be that your clit is to dry, I dont have as good as an orgasm without playing with my clit but other girls on the other hand dont need clitoral massage to have an orgasm. every woman is different

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Some women orgasm vaginally while others orgasm through clitoral stimulation. However there are women who do not orgasm at all. Sex is over rated, and orgasming isn’t the greatest thing ever. It’s a pleasurable feeling, maybe that is wait you mean by intense. And it shouldn’t be painful. Maybe try to pleasure yourself and find out how and what you like.

i think im unable to come ?

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