Plus size epidural

So this is not my first pregnancy and delivery, but last time I was in labor the anesthesiologist told me that there were more risks with getting the epidural at my weight and was really rude about it. He made me super nervous. I get that it’s his job to warn me of the risks, but now it’s all I can think about as this labor approaches. Any other plus size moms, especially those with a lot of extra weight, been told something similar or had experiences with epidurals, good or bad? Thanks!