I've been with my partner for 7 years and lately our sex drive has plummeted and I'm just not feeling the spark anymore. I don't want to break up with him because I feel like I could be reading into this too much and I think it could be solved but I want to know if I'm alone in this? I've literally begged at one point to be fucked and still nothing, it's really driving me crazy and I can't exactly masturbate because he is home 90% of the time, what do I do?! I've tried being sexy and trying to turn him on and I've told him I really wanna have sex and he just tells me he has a headache or sick...

When we do have sex it's great and crazy and the spark is for sure there but I can't even convince him to let me give him head