Husband too excited to fuck me hard enough

Whenever he enters me, my husband is way too excited and needs to sort of just hang out inside me without pumping or he’ll come instantly. I can usually squirm around quietly (and quickly) getting myself to orgasm just in time for him to need to pump and cum with me, but I so wish he could just fuck me hard and that I could reach orgasm at full, loud, screaming capacity. I want to get him some delay spray or something because I’m sick of this. Any other ideas?