my boyfriend and i have been together for about a year and a half and i love him more than anything else. though, more recently it’s been different. he did recently get a new job and he’s pretty busy working- which i understand that we can’t see each other as often. but, it seems like recently i’m the only one putting effort into the relationship. i’m the one who calls him and texts him and tries to make time to hang out. i haven’t seen him in months. every time i ask him to hang out on a day he’s free, he still can’t for whatever reason. he’s also been bailing on me for plans with his friends. it hurts. i’ve tried to talk to him about it, and he promises he’ll make time for me, but our plans always fall through and he never ends up calling me like he said he would or whatever. i hate to keep bringing up things like this to him because he always has some sorta excuse or has a way to turn it around into my fault. i don’t know what to do anymore.

(i left out a lot i could’ve mentioned, but this is the shortest version i could write without crying lmao)