What is Going Wrong??

Question

Okay so my boyfriend and I are both virgins. We’ve tried to have sex on three different occasions now, but his penis won’t go in! We’ve tried a lot of lube but it kept sliding everywhere. Then we tried it without lube and it’s like the tip will go in but the rest of him won’t go, no matter how hard he pushes. What are we doing wrong?? I really need some advice because this is harder than we both thought.😭😭

Answer

He might also be nervous too! My friend has the same problem; they were trying it for the first time and her boyfriend could NOT get hard enough to go in. He was so nervous of disappointing her that he couldn’t physically get aroused enough to get hard. So I guess... try easing into it more? If he’s that nervous, maybe just start messing around instead of saying ‘We’re going to have sex today’ and see if it leads to that when he’s a bit more relaxed. Hope everything works out for you hun!

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If you’re comfortable sucking on his dick for a couple of minutes before he puts it in, that helps get him wet and it will go in easier but it won’t be as slippery as lube.

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Definitely more foreplay. You need to make sure you’re not only 100% aroused, but 100% comfortable. If you’re focusing too much on whether or not he’ll fit inside you, your body will get less aroused because you’re focusing too hard on making it work rather than enjoying the intimacy. Once you’re wet enough, have him work himself inside suuuuuuuper slowly, don’t try to like shove it in lmao you can tear tissue and it’ll hurt like a bitch

What is Going Wrong??

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