What’s a toxic trait you have?

Question

For me, I tend to overthink a lot and put myself in bad situations that could’ve been avoided. Or I can care too much or care too little. 
What’s your toxic trait???

Answer

I don't like to ask for help. it's something I've been working on but I hate asking for help because I feel if they cared they should want to help me if they were seeing me so stressed out or struggling. so instead of asking for help I get mad that they didn't offer to.

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I worry about everything. Major anxiety about situations and the “what if’s” that can and could happen. Me and my husband have argued about certain things because I over do the worrying. I worry about stuff before I even need to worry. Idk damn brain won’t just CHILL. Lol

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Overthink too much gives me headaches and panic attacks when I worry too much

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Mine is that I’m very very very indecisive. 
Like for example today I was at the store and couldn’t decide if I wanted to get a stroller I liked and i spent 3 hours walking around debating if I wanted it. I decided I didn’t want it after 2.5 hours then on the way home I realised I did want it and I turned around to go back and get it. It’s hard because it’s like that with food clothes ect it’s linked to my anxiety/BPD but man it’s affecting my life !

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My toxic trait is co-dependency. I’ve been working on this problem for years but I still desire to care for other people, fix their problems, and only after doing so do I feel important. I don’t see an issue with helping people in need but it’s not healthy when I completely disregard my own needs and well being. I need to find my own self worth. Does this make sense?

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I have a hard time saying no to others. I'll  help anyone with anything, making time to do stuff for others and going out my way whether i want to or not. And sometimes i get upset when people ask me to do so much but i never say no. On the flip side of things i never ask for help and when im doing something and i obviously need help but no one offers, i get awfully angry. I feel like if i can do all this stuff for you, the least one can do is do something for me in return.

What’s a toxic trait you have?

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