is it a big deal

J☺

ok my wife got upset with me and ask me a question saying " are you cheating on me if not then why are you trimming your hair down and your butt hair" and I told her wtf no I'm not cheating on you and I trim because to much hair hothers me and I'll start to get a rash and my butt hair too. when it gets too hot in those areas the hair starts bothering me. she stays quite but upset and I told her. what ... do you want it to look like a longlbeard from Lord of the rings movie lol. she just looks at me up and down and walks away saying it better not look like that and smiles lol but is it a big deal to trim it ??