Will this feeling go away??

Question

Hi! So im pregnant with baby #2 27 and 3 days. I already have a daughter of 19 months. Lately i have been feeling so tired and frustrated about not having much energy to do things with my daughter. Baby #2 was an accident and since the begining i was terrified and not much excited. I cant help but to feel guilty about these feelings... have anyone experienced this before?? Will this go away once the baby is born? My first baby was so planned and i waited so anxiously for her it just worries me that i wont feel connected to this baby like that... mommy guilt all the way... thank you so much for your answers 💗

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I’m 18wk with a girl and have a 10mo old girl too! We got pregnant on BC we’re nervous but we love our girls so much❤️ you’re just exhausted momma, it happens! It doesn’t mean that you love them less it just makes you human❤️

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I'm going through somewhat the same thing.
Mine was a total accident and always feel like slapping people for saying it's a "blessing".
I also feel like saying some choice words to those who said "being pregnant was the most wonderful time of my life!".
It's not to me and to many countless women and that's actually perfectly normal don't let anyone tell you different of male you feel bad about your feelings.
I'm lucky to have a midwife that helps me through my anxiety of this whole situation and a husband that supports and helps me greatly.
If you really have troubles talk to your midwife or doctor (he may recommend a psychologist). 
I'm hoping I connect with mine at some point (I'm 29weeks atm) and that this feeling goes away. Right now all I feel is resentment and guilt for feeling that way, which leads to my depression and anxiety getting worse, it's a vicious cycle.
I hope you get help or at least someone to talk to that won't judge you and your feelings.
Good luck.

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Sometimes I wish we had waited longer before trying for another baby. I was 8 Weeks pp and we had discussed close babies before my daughter was born. Hormones don’t help either. But I know it was meant to happen. I wanted my daughter to have a close in age sister

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Babies are never an accident, only a blessing and I’m the one talking, but I’ve had the same feelings until I found out it was my girl after 3 boys. I started embracing her before then, but I kept beating myself up. Just know baby didn’t do it and love on her as much as you can. 😘

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Yes once you are holding that baby in your arms all those feelings will go away

Will this feeling go away??

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