I don't know how to feel (edited)

Johanna

Ok, so my roommate and I had sexual chemistry prior to him moving in with me. He had just broken up with his gf and I had just broken up with my bf. We are friends as well as coworkers. It started out pretty chill. Hanging out here and there. Joking about how we both needed to get laid. And making comments here and there about each other being attractive sexually. So anyways fast forward to about a month in and we did the deed. Not just once, but twice. And my lord the sex was great..fucking chemistry off the charts. And kisses here and there. Now it's been a week later and he's kinda distanced himself from me. He says he's dealing with depression right now and wants to but right now he's just not up for any of that. He said he will come to me when hes ready. And I'm not trying to be needy but all I'm craving that attention from him so bad...especially after having had it.

Ok. I should probably add that we had talked prior that this was just a friends with benefits situation. Cuz neither of us wanted to date. And sure I like him. Or I wouldn't have had sex with him in the first place. Also I'm not bombarding him with attempting to get laid. We just had this conversation. And he hasn't completely distanced himself. He's just taking a lot of time to do his own thing.