Am I the only one?

Question

So my husband likes to finger me before sex because he likes when I’m really wet, but whenever he asks to finger me my immediate reaction is no. Like sometimes I feel weird or gross and I don’t want him down there, until we’re in the moment and I realize how good it feels. But why is my first response always like nahhh that’s okay...is that weird?

Answer

I hate being asked for sex or anything like that.... it could be the fact it’s orchestrated.i said to my other  half just do it to me but don’t go in for the kill you have to work up to it first!

Answer

I think it's completely normal to initially turn down his offer. Often times we forget that what's hot to them may not be so hot to us. We see ourselves differently than they do - we know ALL of our flaws and insecurities. They may not notice them at all or pay any attention to them. 
Maybe try to keep in mind how good it felt in the moment the last time y'all were in that situation. That may relax you a bit to say yes. And you never know, saying "yes" the first time may surprise him 😉

Am I the only one?

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