Cross posted.. if not allowed I’ll delete.. just too excited lol. Wanted to share my experience Incase anyone else thinks about switching roles.

I was “late” getting into the sex scene (no sex in high school) but when I did I was always a dom. Been with more women and very few guys.

Normally I’m either clothed, chaps, lingerie.... have my bed ties set out, with different style whips, cuffs, blindfolds and toys/vibes to use on my sub. So very much just kink stuff. Real BDSM is kind of extreme.

I love making girls shiver, gasp and moan. Twice I’ve had a man down as a sub and I love showing him & giving him the best experience ever. 😎 inflicting a little bit of pain is part of the game.

Even vanilla sex with girls or guys I always wanted to be on top. It took a lot of trust with my last man for me to be comfortable not being on top. Me in control is so sexy tho 🙌🏻😊

Well... this guy at the gym y’all .... 😏 his name is Travis, he’s 41 (I’m almost 27)... we each have a girl the same age and they’ve had play dates together and we became workout buddies. He quickly became my go-to guy at the gym for any spots or questions and became a close friend. He’s tall and sooo thickly muscled from lifting since his teens. He had asked me on a date back in February. It was wonderful. He’s such a sweet guy. Fast forward to us trying to get intimate and he was so understanding of me being nervous being intimate with a man, so comforting and not pushy. When we did have vanilla sex it was very soft and OH MY LAWD ladies he is HUNG!!

So fn amazing. Well long story short I ended up pulling away from him, I was getting attached. Forced him back to being in the friend zone. Stupidly then tried it again with my ex (few months was all that took to see the mistake). Travis has remained my closest friend in this town.

Fast foward to now, focusing on me (we all know taking care of ourselves gets old after awhile 💁🏻‍♀️). Enjoying traveling alone on my kid free weekends. Things I use to do years ago.

Well we hooked up again.. Travis and I. We just have this addiction to each other.. can’t stay away. That time it’s like he had been dying to get his hands on me. So desperate and willing to please and just blew my fuckin mind 🤯💦 I have him spark me also.. first time I’m the one getting spanked and I loooved it 🍑

Our text get dirtier, sending a lot of kink pictures.. I had previously threatened to tie him down which he doesn’t like. So all I do is push him around and be a lil rough.

Yesterday our sexting got so heated and I sent him a picture referring to me being a sub and told him I wanted to try it. I trust him enough to stop and communicate with me. (In recent years I’ve secretly wanted to try being a sub) low and behold he ended up being home early from work! I hurried up my job so I can leave (I’m a machinist so I was afraid of being dirty.. he didn’t care) to go to his place before I had to get my kids at 6.

I get there, go upstairs... this man is getting out of the shower.. wraps a towel around his waist.. water droplets still glistening off his rippled muscles. Immediately kissing as soon as we touch.. like we are starving for each other. I, of course, drop his towel 😉 led him to his bedroom... then HE took over. Once he has me unclothed and on his bed I tell him “I’m all yours to do as you please” in between kisses.

Ladies I was so damn nervous saying those words yet so excited at the same time!!! 😃

We did vanilla missionary first (still always breathtaking when he slips it in!). Then he gets more controlling... moves me into positions where he sends me to the edges of heaven. After I tell him I want on top he allows me to but still wants to be in control... I hold his hands down and tease him.. then I purposely try to rile him up.. he ends up flipping me back over quickly holds my hands down and is kissing and pounding me so damn good. Puts me on my side until he comes on the bed.. we cuddle and rest for a few mins then this man starts kissing me again!! Going for round two!!

He pushes me on my belly and slides his massive cock in..

He pounds me from behind grabs my hair, smacks my ass... lawd ladies this is so hot... at one point he holds my hands behind me.. just makes me tremble over and over again never getting any rest.. he leans down over me while still filling me.. puts his hand around my chin & slightly over my mouth... whispers dirty things in my ear that I can even remember now but I know sent me over the edge at the time 💦 we keep going till he came again.

Then as he’s standing at the edge of the bed and I’m sitting on it we are talking while I’m lightly kissing his muscles & hairy chest (I love hairy men). He ends up pulling my legs so I’m on my back and enters me AGAIN! This time it’s just my hips suspended in air while he mercilessly thrust. After a bit he comes again..

Then i tell him I have to get dressed to go get my kids. As I’m bending over to get my clothes I’m teasing him.. rubbing my bare ass on him.. standing and kissing him while he rubs his hands on me. He picks me up by my hips and lays my top half over the bed.. hold both arms behind my back and starts pounding me again!! I’m like a rag doll it feels so good! He’s hitting my spots and I’m all sensitive! He goes until I get off and then spanks me for teasing him.

All in all I tell him next time (this Wednesday!!!) that I’ll bring my box of goodies. Which is all of my dom stuff.. I haven’t actually used them but once the last year. I tell him to use them on me because I enjoyed what he did today. So while I’m not gona allow myself to be tied down Wednesday.. I will allow him to use whatever else he make like.

I’m so excited ladies!! Being a sub was AMAZING with the right person! I’m nervous but looking forward to Wednesday. First time being in reverse roles and so far I like it. For some reason Travis in control is so damn sexy!! We also agreed to have an ice cream, movie & cuddle night soon 💜

So yeah that’s my story.. I have no girlfriends here to share it to so you ladies are the ones that get to hear it.. sorry not sorry 💁🏻‍♀️🤗

Update #1:

I’m sorry there is no saucy story to share. We had a fallout. We did have a hookup before then but it wasn’t with my toys/ restraints or anything. Dude started acting very territorial. I want to be single for awhile or be open to see other ppl. Not just be tied down to one person so quickly when I haven’t even tried viewing anyone else. I did a photoshoot in a bikini and heels for a guy with hot rods; he paid us girls to do it. Travis got super jealous and didn’t like me doing it and didn’t even want the guys there to see us girls pose with their cars.. he was just being a lot. It got on my nerves quickly. There’s other little things that add up. So I had to smash the bug quickly as soon as he said we were dating. Cuz to me it was a hookup with no strings attached. Smashing that big ended any future hookups. I feel bad he got his heart involved and he is hurt. I never meant for him to get hurt 😞 but it’s life and we will move on. Sorry ladies. Maybe I’ll have more saucy stories with my next partner someday lol