Sex pain

So I have been tested for STIs, all clear. I’ve had paps done. All clear. But it really fricken hurts in some positions. Like is he hitting my cervix or something? I used to love rough sex but I can’t do it as crazy as I like anymore because it hurts. I’ve also been in A sexually abusive relationship so I wonder if it’s psychological and I’m just not relaxing still ? .. any of you guys have similar pain? It’s like he’s hitting a wall. I’m always super aroused and ready to go. So it’s not that I’m dry. 🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️