I Lost My Virginity!!!! HOW DO I TELL MY PARENTS ??!??!!

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Ok girls, so I lost my virginity last Friday to a boy I’ve been talking to for like 4 months, he’s met my mom and she really likes him he respects me and he’s never forced or talked about us having sex before, and I really really like him, but the thing is I don’t know how to tell my mom and dad! When my sister lost hers she told my mom and she was cool with it she just put her on birth control. I’m both of my parents’ youngest child and they’re very protective over me, and my sisters are protective over me also so I haven’t told them either,I feel like their going to freak out when I tell them, but I told my cousin and she said she would keep my secret until I tell my parents and my sisters. I was thinking to tell them alllllll the way next summer when I turn 17 but can I really wait that long? I feel like it’s too soon I think I should wait until like December. I FEEL LIKE A HOE 😭. 
I need help and ways to tell them. Pleaseeeee help 😭

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Lol why the fuck would u need to tell them. That’s awkward and they don’t need to know about ur personal life, that’s ur business.

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I say tell your mom first, she’ll most likely tell your dad and it’s not important for your sisters to know unless you tell them. But I say tell your mom soon so you can get on birth control too bc you never know

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Don’t tell them it’s your business 😌

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Why do you need to tell your parents? Unless you’re worried about pregnancy or std’s, why do they need to know?
I never told my parents when I lost mine...?

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tell them when u have a kid

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Tell them when you can so you can get on birth control as well seems they cool with their kids being sexually active anywau as long as y'all being safe better to tell them rather you coming home preggo due to a condom mishap or something.

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Honesty is really the best policy.
I would tell your mom first. Moms are typically more understanding as dads have the “daddy’s princess” thing engraved in their heads lol! 
I tried to hide it from my mom when I had sex for the first time and I asked her to get on birth control to “regulate my period.” She agreed and we went to the gyno. 
I told the doc that I didn’t want my mom to know and they said that was fine after pressuring me to tell my mom, but either way they would have to do an STD test because I had sex. I thought nothing of it and they did the test.
3 days later they called my mom and told her that I needed to come back in to be “re-examined” because the test came back that I had HPV. 
The whole car ride back to the doc, I was super nervous and knew that I had to tell my mom. Five minutes away from the doctor I told her that I had sex and she reacted calmly but was disappointed because I was only 13. 
We got to the doctor and they did another test just to tell me that I WAS CLEAN. I DIDNT HAVE AN STD.
Boy I was pissed that I told my mom for no reason but it was a relief that she knew and I had nothing to hide.

I Lost My Virginity!!!! HOW DO I TELL MY PARENTS ??!??!!

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