Financial struggles?

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Anyone going through financial issues with their husbands or boyfriends? How do u cope with stress. We are drifting apart

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sit down and negotiate a budget and stick to it. my husband and I do this every month and I feel like things are much better since we started this. also talk about what it is that's bothering you

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Work together to create a budget and stick to it. We use the app called Every Dollar and it’s amazing. We use the same login so we can each track our spending in the designated categories each month. Before each month begins we set the budget for that month and we agree to stick to it

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Honestly this has been an issue for months with me and my boyfriend. He pays child support 800$ a month , we are living in a home that is owned by his boss , the rent is 2100 a month. We also have roommates who pay 1200. Which should help right?
I’m so tired of hearing him say he can’t afford this, or I can’t get something small because I need to save for my groceries. I do not have a job but before I moved in he said he was financially stable. That I don’t need a job. But lately I’ve been having this weird feeling, more like a worry feeling; about money. 
Long story short, I was living more better at my moms than I do now and it’s killing me to face that fact because my whole household family, told me I would regret leaving and that I would be back. How can I put this, I’ve downgraded on myself to help him out because he can’t afford “nice” things.
Ps: this man makes double what my father makes and my father gave me everything. 
Am I wrong for thinking this way? 
Am I evil for wanting more money in my life? 
Am I wrong to be upset to be living with another couple? :/ 
I wish he could have told me all of this before hand :(

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Girlll yes I’m going through it right now. I tried talking but nothings changing so Im just ignoring him.

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We went through it too...my husband was the primary bread winner. It caused hella problems. It’s hard but lots of love & understanding that neither of us was alone helped. Also we tried to budget as best as possible & start a savings. Even though we didn’t have a lot of money it helped know we were broke, bills paid or at least made payment arrangements & still put up money. Plus we had 3 kids. Me working only paid for childcare

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