Sexually Frustrated

I am very into BDSM. I like to be choked, spanked, called names, degraded, bossed around, i like pain, calling him Daddy/Master/Sir, anal, ect. But, he doesn't really like any of it. I tried bringing it up and he said it was weird. Honestly, I just want to please him but, I don't know how long i can go with vanilla sex. I'm dying here. What should I do?