Recently on here I've seen a lot of young girls asking our advice on if/when they should have sex or lose their virginty so I thought that I would share my story when you guys to maybe make these young girls realise what can actually happen and what has happened to me . So I was about 14 and a half and I had been with my boyfriend for a about a year or so it had been my first ever real relationship , it was perfect he was my best friend my everything and looking into his eyes where like looking into my whole world as we had been together for a while we had done things together but hadn't gone the whole way because we were so young but it was a week or so after out 1 year together we where in his house and his ku, and dad were out and it happened it was the best and he wore a condom so about 2 months later we had had sex a couple times after that but not all the time we were still madly in love with each other nothing had changed and we wore protection every time but around this time I started to get really bloated for what I thought was my period coming as I hadn't had it in a while but I didn't think much of it . I then started feeling very sick a lot of the time I hid it from my mum because she was going through the a hard time and didn't need to be worrying over me too (my dad died when I was a baby) . So I left it and tried to forget about it for about a month later and i went into school as normal and we git told by my teacher we were going to be having a sex ed class , at first I didn't think anything of it and then as the lesson carried on the nurse came onto the topic of pregnancy so I sat there and I listened and then she started talking about pregnancy symptoms and she started to list off mostly all of the things that I had been telling myself were just normal and shouldn't worry about , at that moment I froze i didn't know what to think or how to feel so that night I rushed home I got some money and went the nearest boots store I git the cheapest pregnancy test paid for them and ran to the closest toilet I could find . I took the test and it was positive, I told my boyfriend at the time and he was so happy as he loved children and his mum had had him at 13 so his parents were understanding , i didn't tell my mum until I was 6 months I was the hardest thing I have ever done in my life and to be honest I don't know how I hid it for so long but when I finally told her it was heart breaking it broke our bond because she told me that I couldn't keep the baby and I had to put it up for adoption as k was only 14 I had no choice she was the adult whatever she says goes, I told my boyfriend and he was heart broken it hurt him so bad it he still stuck by me and we tried everything to try and convince my mum to let me keep the baby but nothing changed her mind , the day came that baby was ready to come out and meet us it was the most painful thing in the world I'd never felt anything like it but all the way through the I kept thinking at least I get to see my baby at the end of it . When baby was born my mum had told the doctors that I couldn't see baby or take a photo that baby should just be taken away so that's what Happened i never saw my baby , my boyfriend only caught a glimpse but that's it all I knew about my baby was that it was a girl . Up until this day I don't know where she is or what she is Doing and I am now 20 , me and my mum haven't spoken in 4 years as she went to prison a couple years after this and I lived with my grandmother (who is so supportive) as for my boyfriend , he is now my husband and we have a little boy together but there's not one day that goes by where we are not thinking about our little girl .

So for all of you girls on here thinking about having sex just know that you should wait for the right person and not rush into things and please please educate yourself on sex if you are going to do it , I wish I did and maybe if I did I wouldn't regret letting them take my little girl away from me everyday Xx

Thank you so much for all the comments ❤️