Story time. Very long.

Hey y’all I’m 18, My boyfriend (ex) is 20. I recently had a friend who got into a car accident which totaled her car, the other friend who was with her got injured but not too bad. The one who wrecked her car got kicked out of her house (she’s 18) and kind of moved In with me after she had already been staying with me for a week or two. The others father (the only one she lives with) wasn’t home and no one could continuously watch her Incase she had a concussion (hospitals won’t check unless there are symptoms apparently). This was at the end of June. I finally got the friend who was kicked out of her house, out of mine and back in with her mothers (she was living with her grandmother beforehand). My boyfriend lives 4 hours away from me and works a semi full time job, some days it’s part time others is all day long. Either way he gets off at 7. I was working as well at a retail store that didn’t close up until 10 so some nights I closed others I didn’t. Me and my boyfriend kind of got into it over an attention issue, ie while I was I guess busy with my friend and trying to her back into a home that wasn’t mine, he picked up a hobby. I wasn’t mad at it but I wasn’t busy and was kind of annoyed when he’d blow me off for his derby car. A few weeks go by and we’re seemingly fine arguing over little things but we hadn’t seen eachother in 3 months. One night he gets drunk and tells me how happy id be If i found someone closer to me and could give me more attention and some more things along the line of he could have someone who lived near him since I won’t move because my college is here & he works at a mechanic shop. We kind of get into it he starts ignoring me for his hobby and I’m left alone w/o a call or text for days in a row so I tell him maybe we should take a break a break to him means that we are t together period so when I text him again just trying to talk to him he ignores me completely. I’m trying so hard to get back together with him but he tells me I hurt HIM. I want your opinion. What do you think? I love him and we’ve been together for about a year now. What should I do? I’m sure I left things out. If you have any questions feel free to comment and I’ll answer. Thank you!