How am I supposed to take him seriously when he asks if I’ll move into his new place with him if I’ve never seen his current place!?! I’m so comfortable at home it was a while before it ever bothered me that I hadn’t been to his home. He mentioned a while ago he has roof damage due to a bad storm we had; his place is no longer fit for company. But I’m not going to be able to take him seriously much longer now that the glamour is wearing off and I’ve realized I need to step it up and make some demands.