So I've been in pretty shitty relationships in the past. physical mental and emotional abuse you name it been there done that. i was at a point in my life where I decided it was time for a change. No one was going to love me if I could not love myself. So I'm working on being a better me and low and behold the loml walks into my life! When I tell you that I have never met a man as dedicated compassionate and caring as this man omg! I was impressed with the way that he actually followed through on his promises. Talk is cheap and he sure put his words into action. Not only is he amazing but he loves me for me doesn't want to change me or destroy me but uplift and empower me. He calls me his Queen and I've gladly accepted that title cause he treats me like 1. my family and myself just love him! He even won over my father which was a miracle in itself! We've been engaged for almost a year now and going to get married nxt year in the fall. He also has a daughter whom I love and treat as if she was my own. Now I know I'm not crazy because everyone has told me she looks just like me she should've been mine. our baby pictures even look alike it's so crazy! I knew as soon as I said yes to being with this man that his ex would always be in the picture because she is the mother to his child. I'm not one of those females that is vindictive or spiteful when it comes to her. she said she wanted to meet me so we met and talked she even txtd me on mother's day thanks for being there and treating her daughter like she was my own. So now we're trying to get our daughter into school but we need co-operation from her as well because she's with us half of the time. when my fiance went to talk to her she was talking about me and saying how could he just move on and start a life with myself. Everything he's doing for me as far as marrying me and getting us a home and just being a man is everything he was supposed to do for her! I'm like really??? She's the reason that they broke up he tried everything in his power to make it work and she just left to Mexico and disappeared while she was pregnant and came back had the baby and still didn't tell him! He wasn't allowed to see his baby and never met her until maybe 6 months because of court order! Even then he was still trying to make it work but she never gave him the time of day. So she chose to stay with her parents and live that way. Can you blame the guy for moving on?? She even went as far as saying that he told me to change my hair color. to red while hers was pink, told me to get my nails done a certain way because hers were the same and he wants me to look and talk and act and dress like her because he wants me to be her but I'll never be her! Are u kidding me?? Who says that?? I'm just like how can you smile in my face and act like we're coridable and when it's just you 2 you have these negative feelings towards me? She even got me a xmas present! How?? But anyway. I can't be mad I'd kick myself too if I was ever dumb enough to leave a man like that. I've been through too much not to appreciate and keep a good man such as my fiance. I just don't know how to act towards her knowing now how she truly feels about me. She smiles in my face and secretly hates me for being in the picture. News flash not going anywhere so she can feel how she pleases !