What am I going to do my partner was born with both testicals undesended and did not have the op till he was 3

We have been trying to conceive since Aug 2014 with no luck we started to get worried so both went to see fertility specialist to be told my partner has a very low count of 2 million and to be told that <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">ivf</a> is needed I'm so lost I do however have a 9 year old from a previous relationship all we want is to have a baby together:( his doctor sent of <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">ivf</a> funding for him but it got sent back asking for my self to be in the form this there any hope for us will we have a shot ?????? I feel like I'm going insane month after month negative after negative I have been told I have to go to my doctor to ask if they would consider to put me on the form for <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">ivf</a> .... long shot I know but any things worth a try 😔 any advice would be so helpful right now I feel like I'm in a very dark far away hole 😞😞