YES we are all happy for you. YES we love that you’re so excited to share your happy news. YES we hope the best for you and your baby..

But for the love of God, PLEASE don’t join groups that you haven’t been a part of, where you might not know the “climate” just to announce. And please be mindful of where you’re posting and who your audience is..

Lots of women here, myself included, are struggling with infertility, loss, pain, difficult and uncertain pregnancy, etc. and it’s extremely hurtful to see someone be insensitive and rub it in your face at an inappropriate time.

Please make sure you’re posting your happy news in the correct groups and forums and not in places where people are hurting and trying to recover.