Fairness in a marriage

My husband is in the military and I’m a stay at home mom to our 8 month old.

I take care of ALL baby’s needs (he’ll sometimes feed her), laundry, dishes, cleaning, taking trash out, cooking, and shopping for whatever we need.

Is this fair? Most of the time I justify it in my mind that it’s fair because he pays for everything. 🤷‍♀️

He spends a lot of his time after work and days off playing video games.