I follow my BF on find friend app as he does me as well. I also follow my brothers, SIL and 2 of my cousins, as they all follow me as well. Anyway.

BF called telling me a list of things he was doing after work. That set off a red flag because in our 11 year relationship he has NEVER told me where he goes like that.

I went on find friends and it said he was at a bar. I kept refreshing the app for a half hour said the same address(the bar).

I called him playing dumb asking where he was as he lied to me yet again about where he was.

Half hour later he comes home.

I look and start questioning him because he had a ap I. His trailer and he was suppose to be getting rid of it.

Lie number three came his friends cousin needed to get rid of the scrap that’s why it was in his trailer. I said o really where’s. He said the town they were in.

I said at the bar that you were at?

After that he knew that I knew where he was. I honestly didn’t care he was at the bar with his friend it’s the fact that he ;

1 called and lied about where he was going

2 lies again when I called and questioned him

3 lies yet again when he got home.

Now DON’T FUCKIN COME AT ME ABOUT NOT TRUSTING HIM.

He called me listed off shit that he NEVER doses that was a red flag for me.

He said he lied because he didn’t want to deal with me flipping.

I said “No the whole situation changed when you lied to me not once not twice but three fucking times in a row.”

I know he wasn’t cheating either. He just knows I’m psycho and would flip.

At the end he did tell me the the truth but I believe only because he knows I knew.

Okay so I’m not leaving my BF for lying to me about being at a bar. I don’t care that he goes to the bar I care that he lied about it that’s it.

An I agree “I lied because I didn’t want you to get upset” is bullshit.