How do I deal??

Okay. So everything was going between me and my boyfriend but then his mom got involved..let me mention that I am 20 and he is about to turn 22.. She decided to have a relationship schedule for him and I. He still lives with her and i have my own place. She is only allowing us to see each other on the weekends, and on Mondays if he doesn't have to babysit. Now I understand this, because hes been immature and not doing things around the house, but shes blaming me for this which is so not true because I try to push him to do his chores and he wont.. I have severe anxiety and I'm still trying to cope, but it's becoming worse because shes making it seem like it's my fault and that I'm the bad guy.. I've tried to explain this to her, but she said I should just schedule more appointments with my therapist, which I can barely afford now..