When my husband and I first found out we we’re expecting we both agreed on finding out the gender. Then as the pregnancy went on, my husband suggested we not find out. When we told others they were thrilled and thought that was such a good idea. We’ve already had our anatomy scan and turned our heads so we couldn’t see the gender nor did they write it down. I have an appointment tomorrow and I’m really tempted to ask if they can write the gender down and hide it in an envelope. Should we find out or not?

I was thinking of making it a surprise for my husband since our anniversary is this week and he has mentioned a few times he wish we found out.