i have 3 routes presented before me and i need help.

I graduated High School and now I'm trying to figure out what to do . route #1 : Going to a University with my boyfriend/bestfriend and exploring what i would want to do for the rest if my life(major) . route#2 : going to a community college even though i really want to move out of this house with my strict parents and want to live independently, but if i stay i save money . keep in mind i don't have a license or car so it's not for sure how i will get there everyday . route# 3 : going to florida and taking a mini break/ study this new job and learn and see if it's the right fit for me , go out there with no pressure and still get things done ... --- side note : i love my bf like i said he is like my bestfriend as well and i don't wanna leave him ... this desicion is extremely difficult and it's driving me crazy not one day goes by were i don't think about it .