Advice

So I've been married for a little over 6 years. It always seemed like he's treated me as his child and not his wife. I've never known what our financial situation is or anything. Hell I've never been on his bank account. I wanna confront him and stuff but it just seems like he will dismiss it. And everyone is prob gonna say go to a counselor but where we live is so rural. I highly doubt I could drag him there. Am I just bein a crazy bitch or what?