Weird labia and clitoris

My labia is super long and I also have a big clitoral hood and I feel super self conscious. Not to mention that on the end of my labia on both sides I have tiny bumps that don’t hurt, aren’t red, and don’t itch (I’m a virgin) ALSO, my clitoral hood is super big and long and I have pimple like bumps on it that don’t hurt but can be popped (my labia ones can’t be popped). Idk what to do because my mom am says I am too young to go to the gynecologist. So idk what to do! Help?!