Ingrown hair treatment?!

So I used to occasionally get them, but now it’s like every single hair that grows out of my body is ingrown (not exaggerating), that Includes my legs, underarms, bikini line, you name it! It’s so out of control I’ve been considering laser hair removal but it’s not something I’ve had the money or time for. Are there any remedies that help?

I’ve tried so many things — I exfoliate, I’ve tried oils, changing/stopping use of deodorants... i also stopped wearing jeans and only wear sweats in hopes it would irritate my skin less. I just don’t know what else to do and I hate how bad my skins looks :(

Update: also forgot to mention I’ve tried waxing instead of shaving in hopes it would help but nope! The hairs come back ingrown! It’s crazy and makes no sense literally