My brother is having another baby (except this one he plans to take care of) it's his second child. I just don't care. My family is upset that I haven't taken any part in it. They want me to attend their baby shower and buy them crap and it's like well I didn't have any help when I had my first why should I help them? They don't want any advice on how to take care of the kid they just want me to buy them stuff. I am the kind of person who cares very little about... Well everything and I don't hide it... I made it clear to them I'm not interested in celebrating their unborn child (to be honest I have no interest in being apart of their kids life...) My sister has two kids that I love to pieces so it's not that I have a distaste for kids or anything... I just genuinely don't care about them or their kid.... The only time they want anything to do with me is to get crap out of me.

does this seem wrong? I guess I feel guilty because of my family and their shaming of me but I don't feel guilty about my choice. I can find thing I'd rather do with my time. I'm not one to pretend to care.

Update:

I can't make this any more clear... I hate no one. I just don't care. I really don't... It's like good for you bro you finally found a kid you want to support instead of signing it over to dhs. I just don't care hating would mean I wish them Ill will which I don't I wish them the best just leave me out of it.