Last 2 months my boyfriend and I have been going through a real rough patch, things have not been good at all.

He’s unreasonable, not supportive or understanding, he’s selfish and verbally abusive.

I’ve come to realise a baby is not going to change him or our relationship.

After every fight I’m the one to crawl back and apologise but this time I’m not caving in, I just can’t.

Two weeks ago:

He has been very secretive, has been sleeping on the couch, says he’s too tired to spend any time with me or even talk to me but has mates over at our house every night, EVERY NIGHT!, mates that even stay the night, without asking me if it’s okay, I’ve said too many times it’s not acceptable and I don’t want people staying over, specially when he leaves for work at 5am and when I wake up mates are still there sleeping on the couch, it’s just awkward for me. He is not affectionate with me at all anymore.

Smokes weed in the house which I’ve said multiple times not to do but still does anyways.

He has done nothing nor brought anything for this baby.

I’ve got nothing left, this relationship doesn’t even feel like a relationship.