So my husband ended up having to work for his birthday. He normally works 8 hrs then gets off so I planned something special. I got money to take him to eat, then to our bar to drink and play pool, then I was going to take him next door to the hotel we first got together at. When he opens the door he will see happy birthday spelled out in rose petals on the bed and a ring around the bed. I packed is work clothes and stocked up on beer so we can go there and relax and get freaky any way he wants. Well he went to work at 4 am and won't get to get off until 5:30pm then has to drive an hour to get home so I know hes exhausted, then he calls and says his legs are really chapped from getting sweaty so he doesn't know if he wants to go celebrate tonight. (He doesn't know about the hotel). I'm trying to be understanding but I'm pretty upset and tried not to cry over the phone because that would give away that there was a surprise. I don't know if I should tell him if he refuses to go or just cancel my plans. I really really wanted to be romantic and surprise him but it looks like the world is against me today 😭😭😭