Someone please tell me to chill 😡😡😡🙄

So my step daughter’s mother is back at it again. We pay for EVERYTHING for my step daughter. We buy clothes, diapers, wipes, and will even hand that stuff over to her mother when she needs something for her.

Well guess who wants to now put child support on my husband even though we always buy literally EVERYTHING for her and the only thing my step daughter’s mother needs to pay for is her food which she gets food stamps for.

I’m fine with her putting child support on him because we’re willing to pay, it’s just the fact of where I know what the money will be put to use 🙄 she’s going to use it on weed. But we’re going to tell her, okay you can keep having us buy everything for her or you can get the child support check. One or the other.

We have her 4 days a week, maybe more because sometimes her mom forgets to come pick her up, so I’m also annoyed she can put child support on him just because she’s the mom.

Also, am I crazy for wanting her mother to pick her up only when I’m home? She literally only goes to pick her up while I’m at work and my husband is home. She’s been flirty with him MANY times in the past and when she goes to our house to pick her up she stays for an hour because my husband doesn’t know how to be rude and tell her to get the heck out of our house. 😡😡😡 I’m trying to be nice and make things work with her but I’m literally at the end of my line.