breaking up advice

Hey ladies,

I need some advice. I’ve been dating this guy for 3 years and 1.5 years I’m just not happy for multiple reasons. Our routine is the same, he doesn’t spend time with my family whereas I’m Always with his family, we aren’t intimate - which is a huge deal for me because I’m such a sexual personal and we haven’t had sex in almost a year. I mean ladies I’ve done EVERYTHING but he pushes me away kinda kills a girl self esteem!!

I love this man but I’m not happy ( does this make sense) Maybe I’m scared to breakup with him because I’m scared to lose the friendships I’ve gained with his friends and his sister. I just need to grow the balls.

I don’t know how to do it when to do it. Do you ladies have any advice on breaking up with someone? I’ve never been the one to break up with someone. Any advice? Any words of wisdom?