Should I tell him??

Question

Last night I was looking through my husbands wallet knowing he had a baggie with coke somewhere in there since he uses it sometimes when he drink. I tend to throw it out when I see he’s acting different and notice he’s using drugs so I got his wallet without him knowing went to the restroom and looked for the baggie. When I got it out I was about to throw it but got curious and tried it and later in the night went back and did it again 😔 I’m so upset I did but I was curious as to why he used it now I’m scared and I don’t know if I should tell my husband I used it twice before I threw it out. I’m 100% aware that it’s not ok at all and we all make mistakes so now I have no idea what to do

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You dug through his stuff to find drugs and then used his drugs? You should go see a marriage counseled.

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I would tell him. Don’t do it again, especially since you seem like a person that has an addictive personality. Yes, Coke makes you feel great but it only lasts 30 mins and you can never feel as good as you did the first line. It’s addicting. But you are stronger than that. Don’t dig in his wallet anymore and maybe ask him to try and stop doing it.

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Do NOT tell him. If he is already addicted chances are he's only going to encourage your behavior. Please go get a counselor now because just that little bit can have a huge effect on how you handle difficult situations later on. Please please don't tell someone who is already addicted that you tried it.

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I mean I don't condone cocaine regardless of the situation, but why do you have to tell him? He does it and you're supposed to just be cool with that? Obviously he knows you're not because you throw it out and cocaine ain't cheap. I mean there's bigger issues going on other than you doing coke and not wanting to tell your husband.

Should I tell him??

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