Green eyed monster

My cousin has a toddler and is 9 months preg. She is texting me right now about how she is getting kicked out (been living with baby daddy and his folks) bc her toddler pissed off his mom. She keeps trying to get her mom to take her toddler (I know she is trying to pawn him off on her mom bc she suggests her raising him literally everytime we talk) I'm trying to help her but secretly I'm pissed that she has two kids one she doesn't even seem to want and I'm still TTC. I feel like a judgy witch for thinking this already so be gentle