So we have family visiting this week, last week i wrote out my school schedule, my work schedule and what days I’m free to spend time with everyone. So my parents know which days are good to plan things.

I got home from class this morning and they said “what are you doing today” I said “I wrote the schedule down for you, today I work.”

They then said “oh. Darn. Today we’re going to Indy to the museum, and dinner with your brother. Wish we had known you worked”

I then pointed to the schedule I wrote them on our chalk board.

They’re upset I can’t go. I said “well can’t you just do all of that tomorrow since I’ll have to be in Indy anyways” and they said “no that just doesn’t work. We plan to have a relaxed day tomorrow.”

So I’m upset because this kind of thing keeps happening to me. They plan stuff when they know im busy with school or work, so then I’m stuck feeling left out and not being able to spend time with anyone.