my mom is making me feel bad about wanting 3 children. She says its going to be too expensive and she doesnt want me to struggle ever and says there are so many unexpected things that can cone up. Also says with so many grandchildren she wont be able to spoil as much as she would like too. Also says she thinks 3 will keep me too busy and itll be hard to keep up with.. she also says middle children usually have issues..

She just goes on and on

Idk what to say back, my husband and I really want 3 but i guess she is right... idk

i feels she should be supporting with what ever i decide and stop making me feel like i wont be able too..

i giess this was just a rant:/