Boyfriend laughs off “abuse”

Lai

So I tell my best friend everything and of course she calls my boyfriend abuse, as do my family.

But every time someone calls him “abusive” he just laughs it off and makes some excuse..

Earlier before work he hit my legs multiple times for the stupidest reason, and theirs but plenty of other times even kicking me on the floor just because I didn’t wake up with work for him in the morning because he was being a dick the following day, or almost breaking my hand when he turned off the wifi when I was on the phone with my mom and I wanted to call her back, and well plenty of other stories. Any one else go through something like this? I don’t feel like theirs any way to get through to him yet I just keep coming back..